When anxiety or self-doubt takes hold, it can feel like one big, formless wave that arrives and sweeps you along. But if you slow it down, it isn’t formless at all. Everything that happens is happening in one of six specific places, and every skill worth learning targets one of them. I use this map […]
The Six-Area Framework: Where Anxiety Actually Gets You Stuck Read More »
A lot of people put off starting therapy not because they don’t want help, but because they’re not quite sure what they’re walking into. Will they be expected to talk about their whole life history? Will it feel clinical and cold? What if they don’t know what to say? These are entirely understandable concerns and
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You’ve worked hard to get where you are. So why does it still feel like you don’t quite belong — or that it’s only a matter of time before people find you out? If that question resonates, you’re not alone. Imposter syndrome is one of the most common things I work with as a therapist,
What is Imposter Syndrome? A Therapist Explains Read More »
Part of the Awareness to Action Framework: four steps to working with imposter feelings. If you’ve followed the first two steps of this series, Awareness and Understanding, you’ll have a clearer picture of what keeps imposter feelings alive and why your mind works the way it does. But awareness and understanding only take you so
Step 3: Learning to Steady Yourself – The Skills That Help You Handle Imposter Feelings Read More »
Part of the Awareness to Action Framework: four steps to working with imposter feelings. If you’ve followed this series so far, you’ll know that Step 1, Awareness, is about recognising the patterns that keep imposter feelings alive, learning to notice the triggers, thoughts, and behaviours that pull you into the same loops again and again.
Step 2: Understanding – Making Sense of the Mind Read More »
When people come to therapy for imposter feelings, they usually want to jump straight to the solution. How do I stop feeling this way? How can I finally feel confident? It’s completely understandable, because feeling like a fraud is exhausting. But we can’t change what we don’t yet understand, and that’s why the first step