Most of us are experts at struggling with our own minds.When anxiety or self-doubt shows up, our instinct is to push it away, silence it, or out-think it. And for a moment, it might feel like it works, but very quickly, the doubts creep back in, often louder than before. This is what keeps many […]
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Introduction Imposter syndrome can feel like a relentless companion as it whispers doubts, demands proof, and pushes you to keep running to avoid being “found out.” At first, the strategies you use to quiet it down such as working harder, hiding mistakes, chasing credentials, seem to help. But over time, the pressure builds, and instead
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Most people think of imposter syndrome primarily as a confidence problem – a deficit of self-belief that more evidence, more experience, or more reassurance might eventually fix. But in practice, what tends to sit at the heart of it isn’t really about confidence at all. It’s about uncertainty. Not uncertainty in the abstract sense, but
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Imposter syndrome isn’t just about self-doubt. It’s about the traps we fall into when we believe our minds and act on short-term relief rather than long-term values. For many of my clients, this shows up as a familiar cycle: the more they try to escape the feeling of being a fraud, the more trapped they
On the outside, imposter syndrome can look like a set of nagging doubts. But at its core, it’s often about how we relate to our thoughts. When we take every thought as truth, our minds can quickly become tyrants, pushing us into cycles of worry, perfectionism, and self-doubt. One of my clients, let’s call him
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You’ve just done something well. Maybe a project landed better than expected, or you received feedback that was genuinely positive, or you got the promotion you’d been working towards. And instead of feeling good – or at least settled – you feel anxious, exposed, like the bar has just been raised and you’re not sure
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